And it's really just so much fun to imagine, isn't it?
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From: [log in to unmask] href="mailto:[log in to unmask]">Kate Troy
To: [log in to unmask] href="mailto:[log in to unmask]">[log in to unmask]
Sent: Thursday, January 29, 2009 5:19 PM
Subject: Re: Men women sex - The scientific pov.

Of course, concerning some of these men, it's far more soothing to the ego to say that women shouldn't have sexual feelings or those feelings are irrelevant rather than being put in a position of having to satisfy such feelings.  In Eliot's case, he was as a young person shy with women. As to what Vivian said to him of his bedroom abilities, we can only imagine.  How this affected him . . . .
In a message dated 1/29/2009 1:15:29 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, [log in to unmask] writes:
> Nancy Gish wrote:
> Well, he is quite certain that he does know.  That is what is so
> infuriating.  Eliot, on the other hand, seems never to be concerned
> about it.  "Ode" is an ode to total sexual narcissism; the narrator
> seems utterly unaware that another person might have feelings about
> such an awful experience.

I'm unfamiliare with "Ode," and Google failed to help with it.  (I was
also unfamiliar with "Figs," but Google came through on it. Does anyone
have an electronic copy of it they could send me. I'm particularly
interested just now in "infuriating" poems. "Figs" is infuriating
enough, but its writing seems slack to me, and I want well-written

Note, assuming "ode" well written (or that I am wrong on "Figs"), There
must be 10s of thousands of pages of trash expressing "utter
unawareness" of others, and surely we meet up with such unawareness in
daily life. Couldn't one argue that in fact one of the central functions
of literature is to make visible the outrageous! The attitudes Lawrence
expresses are not his alone; they probably are widespread enough to be
an element in the ideological support for continued male supremacy. A
poem does not itself need to "know" or "express" the truth, if by
considering the poem a reader may find truth for him/herself.

Poets, as Plato claimed, may all be liars -- but readers may
nevertheless gain truth from the lies, be those lies powerfully enough



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