Ah, then you are speaking of temper, which I believe is an entirely different matter than surrendering to an impulse that cannot be retracted. I think that you are younger then me. I'm like 41. I'll tell you of my two "insignificant" moments today. As I was leaving for the office today, I was looking at my painting of Princess Diana. From behind me, my husband said: It's good; you got her, but the mouth is a little off. I turned to him and said, rather sarcastically: Don't you think that I know that. I didn't say "Duh," but it was there hanging in the air unsaid. He's my biggest fan and my biggest critic. This impulse hardly changed our lives and, in fact, was immediately retracted with a "goodbye for the day" kiss. The second incident occurred at the market on way home. I surrendered to impulse and placed that gorgeous chocolate item in my basket. But, the fact that I ran two miles in 90 degree heat on Saturday and Sunday retracted that impulse beforehand. Rick, if you are speaking of "office politics" matters and stupid things people say and responding with anger, etc., I finally learned after years and years and years: Live and Let Live. Regards, Kate P.S. In examining my painting tonight, I noted that I made Diana's breasts too large. She was well built, but I gave her more than is her due. My husband didn't mention this error. ha ha. In a message dated 6/11/2007 9:14:33 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, [log in to unmask] writes: Kate Recklessly impulsive and full of duh! Moments but not usually foolish. Rick Seddon Portales, NM From: T. S. Eliot Discussion forum. [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf Of Kate Troy Sent: Monday, June 11, 2007 6:55 PM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: Re: Of "awful daring" In a message dated 6/11/2007 5:57:04 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time, [log in to unmask] writes: Why just today I've already had several moments which in retrospect were awful moments of surrender to impulse that nothing can retract. I just have to live with it and think of it as a friend selector. My friends, the ones who stay by me, have had to learn to put up with lots of duh! Moments. I still feel rotten about them until I forget and commit another. Somehow TSE manages to remind me of the worst ones every time I read this passage. Rick Seddon Portales, NM You've had several moments today which is retrospect were awful moments of surrender to impulse that nothing can retract? That's so unbelievable, unless you are speaking of a bad temper. Can you elaborate a little? ____________________________________ See what's free at _AOL.com_ (http://www.aol.com/?ncid=AOLAOF00020000000503) . ************************************** See what's free at http://www.aol.com.