Diana Manister wrote:
> Ken, if I say "red is a color but so is pink" am I establishing a 
> binary relationship or describing difference?
    Uh huh, I get it. But if you say, "I'm sorry but I simply see 
difference where you see opposition," you are, in your terms, 
"establishing a binary relationship." Get it?
>  
> I find that many people think of differences as oppositions, as if 
> they can't think beyond duality

     To be honest, you're the only person I know who doesn't see that 
some differences aren't oppositional and some are. One can reasonably 
dispense with neither, ponderous German idealists and fashionable French 
deconstructionists notwithstanding.

Ken