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> The current New Yorker (Sept. 30 cover date) has a review of Painted
> Shadow by Louis Menand, teased on the cover as "T.S. Eliot's Sex Life."

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> Not sure if it's available on-line.

It is.

http://www.newyorker.com/critics/books/?020930crbo_books

THE WOMEN COME AND GO
by LOUIS MENAND
The love song of T. S. Eliot.
Issue of 2002-09-30
Posted 2002-09-23

T. S. Eliot's sex life. Do we really want to go there? It is a sad and
desolate place. Eliot was twenty-six and, almost certainly, a
frustrated virgin when, in 1915, he married Vivienne Haigh-Wood, an
Englishwoman he had known for three months. Haigh-Wood was a medically
and emotionally vexed person. ...

Regards.
    Rick Parker